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Simple Starter Toys for Beginners 11/17/2004 Simple Starter Toys for Beginners <br> It was asked of me recently “what can new people use to get started without spending a lot of money and how do we get started?” <br> If 0 Comments, 517 Views, 0 Votes | |
"Don't Like It" Voters--Give a REASON 10/24/2004 I understand that the voting for articles is likely to remain anonymous. <br> HOWEVER...for those who vote "Don't Like It" on an article, I challenge you to post a comment to that same 0 Comments, 53 Views, 0 Votes | |
The Dangerous People 10/23/2004 I find it very interesting that the alt administrators see fit to erase this essay when it is clearly posted and untouched in my previous profile. This is a highly relevant topic, one we are all f 0 Comments, 164 Views, 0 Votes | |
How To Be An Effective SafeCaller 10/23/2004 Dangerous people, dangerous situations. How do we ensure our safety when we meet for the first time? How do we know the person won’t become the abuser down the line? <br> These are the 0 Comments, 580 Views, 0 Votes | |
EMPOWERMENT 10/23/2004 (Reposted by the author) <br> There are many articles about the meaning of submission, the definition of submission, the meaning of dominance, the definition of dominance, and the meaning 0 Comments, 52 Views, 0 Votes | |
The Difference Between Sub and Slave 10/23/2004 (Originally written in response to a question posted here in the magazine about a year or two ago and a very important topic to revisit.) <br> The difference between a submissive and a sla 0 Comments, 112 Views, 0 Votes | |
Response to: What Is Real Time 10/23/2004 It is a failing of the human psyche that definitions are made to suit one's self and the cry of "judge not lest ye be judged" used to justify that tailored definition. <br> Real means you d 0 Comments, 83 Views, 0 Votes | |
Clothespins: How-To of Labia Play 10/23/2004 In my previous article on clothespins, we looked at how to have breast play with a novice in such a way that she will want to let you do it again. That is, after all, the POINT of play, isn’t it 0 Comments, 1735 Views, 0 Votes | |
Clothespins: How-To of Breast Play 10/23/2004 Seems to me that I see very few helpful articles about how to use this very simple, under appreciated and under rated appliance. <br> The humble wooden clothespin, if used with appropriate 0 Comments, 504 Views, 0 Votes | |
Response to: Where are the Swing Clubs in NYC 8/20/2004 Get yourself a copy of the Village Voice. It comes out every Thursday. Somewhere in the what's going on sections will be the happenings at various swing and fetish clubs. <br> TylerRose 0 Comments, 55 Views, 0 Votes | |
Ten Questions to Which all Newbies Should Know the Answers 7/28/2004 Before you dive headlong into that thing which you desperately want but know so little about, consider the following: <br> 1. Are you prepared to take on the responsibilities of your cho 0 Comments, 90 Views, 0 Votes | |
Response to Double Standard 7/28/2004 I am one of those women who is offended by a picture of a dick (or ass or tits or vagina) in my face. In order to NOT support a double standard, I do not have a picture on the front page of my pro 0 Comments, 65 Views, 0 Votes | |
The Bra Experience -- For Well-Endowed Women (and the men who love us) 3/11/2004 Having been “well-endowed” pretty much since the moment I hit puberty, I know full well the discomfort of this contraption called the brassiere. (Who invented this thing and can we go back in t 0 Comments, 64 Views, 0 Votes | |
Response to: Good books to learn more 2/9/2004 The Loving Dominant Erotic Surrender: The Joy of Female Submission (I don't see any reason male submissives would not benefit from this one) The Topping Book The Bottom Book Screw the Roses, 0 Comments, 45 Views, 0 Votes | |
Response to: Is this common punishment 1/31/2004 Honey, your mistress, if you can call her that, is using you to put gas in her car, fund her personal vices and maybe even pay for her ' college education. Don't ante up a single penny! Tell her 0 Comments, 46 Views, 0 Votes | |
Corrected Response to: Commitment of Submission 12/8/2003 Thank you, alt, for butchering my original posting of this response. Here is how it SHOULD read: <br> Exactly what do you mean by "economic" submission? Does this mean that you ex 0 Comments, 68 Views, 0 Votes | |
Response to: How can I give head without jaw cramps 12/7/2003 I am very sorry to tell you that your jaw is going to get tired and seize up no matter WHAT you do. Unless, of course, you find yourself a man with a smaller dick. If he's punishing you because y 0 Comments, 100 Views, 0 Votes | |
Response to: Commitment of Submission 12/7/2003 this taking advantage of a person. <br> And no submissive should give up his or her financial Exactly what do you mean by "economic" submission? Does this mean that you expect a s 0 Comments, 32 Views, 0 Votes | |
Response to "He thinks he is so good" 11/30/2003 You are 19 and he is 26 and he is your slave when it suits him? Sounds like you need to learn a bit more about being the dominant, sweetie. And a discussion or two with him about what you want yo 0 Comments, 63 Views, 0 Votes | |
Response to Bdsm vs. gor 11/21/2003 In bdsm there is consent, mutual pleasure, mutual delight, open communication, sheer joy. And reality. <br> You do not say which version of gor you are specifically asking about, thus, 0 Comments, 43 Views, 0 Votes | |
For SirIceMan 11/20/2003 No Long Goodbyes <br> We say goodbye to a friend this week. We are glad to have known him, sad to see him leave. He was kind enough to tell us he was going. He does not leave alt beca 0 Comments, 72 Views, 0 Votes | |
Response to: What is Knife Play 11/5/2003 Knife play is exactly that--the use of a knife or other blade (swords come to mind) to stimulate, excite, incite a sense of fear. What are the extremes? Something as minimal as tracing the backsi 0 Comments, 74 Views, 0 Votes | |
Open Letter to Jackasses 10/23/2003 (Originally written as a confrontation in the Lobby, previously posted by my and then erased by someone else who couldn’t take the truth. Re-posted now as it is more relevant than ever.) <br 0 Comments, 47 Views, 0 Votes | |
Response to Lilsubmiss 10/20/2003 There is an unfortunate circumstance that becomes more and more prevelent as more and more people go online and find the bdsm world more accessible. <br> It is called stereotyping. < 0 Comments, 49 Views, 0 Votes | |
Response to: Rachel's wannabe rant 10/17/2003 A wannabe is one who pretends but who will never actually BE what it pretends. This has nothing to do with being new and searching. <br> The difference is sincerity. <br> A 0 Comments, 60 Views, 0 Votes | |
Support for Learn the Difference 10/16/2003 Don't EVER apologize for speaking up and saying what you think. <br> You bring up a valid point and are quite correct. There are too many here who think that slapping the word master or 0 Comments, 31 Views, 0 Votes | |
The Cost of Love 10/14/2003 (Originally written in 2001 and resubmitted by the author—this subject is always relevant.) <br> I am deeply disturbed by events of the last two weeks. Those of you who know me from m 0 Comments, 57 Views, 0 Votes | |
EMPOWERMENT--Response to Responses 10/14/2003 To those who took the time to post responses--I thank you. It is nice to know my work is appreciated. <br> I find it very interesting that (as of this writing) there are more Didn't Lik 0 Comments, 33 Views, 0 Votes |
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